Book Amory Jane (Offerings)

Amory Jane has taught sexual education workshops and presented on human sexuality and relationships for 12 years. Her classes have been taught at sex toy boutiques, conventions, kink festivals, colleges and universities, hospitals, on stages, and at LGBTQ organizations across the country. She has moderated and spoken on panels at national events and conferences, and has been an emcee and guest speaker for multiple sex-positive events throughout the Pacific Northwest.

Want to book a workshop or panel? Contact AJ with your preferred dates. Prices vary on event type. Limited sliding scale classes and trainings available!

Don’t see what you’re looking for below? Email AJ to create a custom workshop for your organization or event!

Current Workshops (please email to book)

Beyond Monogamy

A growing number of people are exploring alternatives to monogamy, through swinging, polyamory, and other types of open relationships. Whether you are curious about openingdecisions up, facing obstacles with polyamory,  or you are a provider who wants to better understand your clients, Amory Jane will help walk you through the challenges and benefits of ethical non-monogamy.

She will discuss different styles of open relationships, talk about how to deal with common issues such as jealousy, resentment, time management, miscommunication, and New Relationship Energy (NRE), and will offer tips on dating/meeting new people, navigating different relationship structures and hierarchies, and coming out as polyamorous.

In this interactive workshop, Amory Jane will guide participants through exercises that help them negotiate agreements/boundaries, design their own ideal open relationships, and practice nonviolent communication for deeper, more fulfilling connections. There will also be the option to hear about real-life triumphs and tribulations of other non-mono people in addition to learning how to find and build community.

Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101 back-that-ass-up--anal-sex-101-800px-800px

Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!

In this educational and humorous workshop, AJ will confront taboos, go over anal anatomy, prostate, and the G-spot, discuss anal penetration for beginners, and show great positions for anal sex. She’ll also cover safety and hygiene and give you the inside scoop on all the best lubes and anal toys! This class is open to all genders and sexual appetites. Demo optional!

aj-superhero-bioThe Joys of Toys

Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered “what the heck is that?” Never fear – Sex Toy Superhero, Amory Jane, is here to answer your burning questions, and then some!

In this class you will learn how sex toys originated and have advanced throughout history. Amory Jane will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more. Of course, don’t forget one of the most important things of all… yes, that would be lube! Amory Jane will go over the different types of lube, as well as the ingredients to be aware of when selecting the best product for you. She will also address how to clean and store your toys so that you can enjoy them for as long as possible.

F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk (class developed with Tuck Malloy)

Here’s a workshop all about talking dirty! Are you craving the sounds of your sexiest fantasies? Are the words on the tip of your tongue? Do you want to charm your lover with your dirty talk prowess or seduce with a sexy selfie? Well, get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit out all the things you’ve been dying to say, hear, and share.

We’ll cover aural and verbal turn ons, avoids and turn offs, and how to actually get those words out when you’re in the heat of the moment — whether it’s over text or in the bedroom! Words are powerful: they can be kinky, romantic, sensual, naughty, playful and oh so arousing! Get ready for a little roleplaying, a little audience participation, and a whole lot of sweet nothings (aka live demos) from our mouths to your ears. We’ll show you how authentic, inspired dirty talk can lead you or your honey to eargasmic levels of pleasure and increase the playfulness and depth in your relationships.

BJ’s with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop

HEADS UP! Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover’s mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!

Amory Jane will talk about anatomy, blowjob positions, teasing, mouth and tongue techniques, what to do with your hands, and how to ask for what you want. She will cover sloppy BJs, deep throating, gagging, and playing with power dynamics. She will also share ideas on making oral sex more stimulating and pleasurable for the giver and dealing with issues such as TMJ or neck pain.

This workshop includes a live demo on a strap-on dildo. Bring a pen and paper if you like to take notes, and a dildo from home if you like to practice as you learn!

Sex & Cannabissex-and-cannabis-wed-nov-30-7-30-pm-800px-800px

With the legalization of cannabis all over the country, more and more folks are exploring how this popular plant may affect their sex lives. From decreasing chronic pain, to increasing sensitivity and arousal, to helping with relaxation and body image, using cannabis has helped many people enhance their sexual experiences.

You don’t have to be a stoner to attend this class, or even need to smoke. Cannabis comes in many forms: concentrates, tinctures, edibles, flowers and topicals (including cannabis lubricant, such as the one made by Luminous Botanicals!). Amory Jane, M.A. is here to break it all down; in this workshop, she’ll share the current research on cannabis use, talk about differences between THC and CBD, and offer advice on which strains may work best for certain sexual issues. She will also help you figure out which cannabis products and methods of consumption (if any) might be a good fit for you and/or a partner, and she will dive into the real pros and cons of combining cannabis and sex.

BDSM for Beginners*

Amory Jane shares her knowledge and passion of all things kinky with you in this entertaining and playful class on BDSM!

Do you like a little pain with your pleasure? Would role playing make your heart race? Are you turned on by being tied up or delighted by the thought of being dominated? If you’re curious about the wide world of kink and BDSM, this class is for you!

Amory Jane will go over bondage basics, spanking,sensation play, how to use BDSM toys, power dynamics, and more! Demonstrations on role playing and impact safety will be provided, and participants will be lead through exercises that will help them discover their fantasies and kink personalities.

Bon Appetit!: The Fine Art of Cunnilingus

This is a body-positive cunnilingus class for anyone and everyone who wants to learn how to give (or receive) phenomenal oral pleasure.

You will learn about anatomy, arousal, hand tricks, tongue techniques, and why “foreplay” shouldn’t be considered an appetizer (it can be an entire fulfilling meal).  This class will also cover communication and finding your own cunnilingus style, as well as give pointers on how to incorporate toys, temperature, and G-spot stimulation. Walk away with fun ways to kick it up a notch if you’re stuck in a muff diving rut (face sitting, anyone?)!

Like all of Amory Jane’s classes, this class is open to all genders, experience levels, and identities.

Swinging & Threesomes & Orgies, Oh My!

Édouard-Henri_Avril_(25)Join sex educator and HUMP! 2015 Film Festival winner, Amory Jane, for a class on partner swapping, sex parties, threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes!

Are you excited about making your group sex fantasies come true but don’t know where to start? Do you and your partner want to try swinging or having a threesome together but are worried about how it may affect your relationship? Well, start learning how to make your fantasies a smart and safe reality with this workshop!

Amory Jane will talk about the differences between swinging, orgies, and threeways (and their unique benefits and considerations), give pointers on how to pick play partners wisely, and will cover important group sex etiquette. She will lead participants through exercises in communication and negotiating boundaries and ground rules, and she’ll also discuss jealousy and other emotions that may arise.

Strap It To Me! Strap-On Sex for Everybody (this class co-taught with Gretchen Leigh)

Buckles and straps and dildos, hot damn! Strapping it on can feel a little overwhelming at first. Luckily, strap-on sex is one of our instructors’ favorite teaching topics!

Are you new to the world of strap-ons? Curious about pegging? Looking to gain some extra cock-confidence while wearing a harness? In the market for a new strap-on but not sure which dildo would be the best choice? Join sex educators and HUMP! Film Festival winners, Gretchen Leigh and Amory Jane as they walk you through the ins and outs of strap-on sex! This fun and informative class will cover pegging, how to choose a harness and dildo, penetration, positions for all body types and abilities, how to get more comfortable using your strap-on, and tips for adding a little extra fun for the wearer. It will also include educational and sexy live demos.

Participants of all genders, orientations, size, abilities and experience are welcome.

Carnal Creativity (this class co-taught with Gretchen)

Have you been feeling a bit unadventurous during adult playtime? Back on the dating scene and wanting to learn some new sexy skills? Perhaps you just want to learn how to safely get into BDSM, feel closer to a partner, or have a unique date night to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Whatever your reasons, have we got a workshop for you! Join sex educators and HUMP! Film Fest winners, Amory Jane and Gretchen Leigh, for a fun and interactive evening of sexploration.

They say your biggest and best sex organ lives right between your ears; it’s time to put that beautiful brain to use and start having the sex of your dreams! This workshop from She Bop’s dynamic duo of sex ed will focus on kinky fantasies, communication, and keeping things fresh in the bedroom. We’ll cover (and demo!) role playing, dirty talk, BDSM basics, and more.

Amory Jane also offers these services:

  • Creating/improving your online dating profiles
  • Help with writing/responding to messages online or through text
  • Dating practice 
  • 🍄  Psychedelic integration for individuals, couples, and triads

For rates, please email Amory Jane at